How To Select Your First Dance Song
With your memorable ceremony completed, it’s time for your fun reception with your family and friends to begin! Whether you decide to make your entrance and go right into your first dance or wait until after your meal, your first dance with your new spouse will be something you never forget. Your first dance symbolizes the love and bond that the bride and groom share, and the song you choose for this moment makes it even more special. Keep reading for some advice on how to choose your first dance song.
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The song you choose for your first dance will be a song that you will remember and cherish for the rest of your life. When you hear it at a gathering or playing on the radio or at a store, it will take you back to that moment you shared with your now spouse on the dance floor.
Choosing your song is important and can look different for every couple. Some couples might already have “their song” in mind. However, for those who do not, I hope I can help! Some will want a slower, romantic song and others might want something more upbeat. If I have one final piece of advice, it would be to choose a song that reflects you both in your love story. If you both love country music and having a good time, then a more lively song might be better. If you both are hopeless romantics and want more of an emotional moment, choose a more intimate song. Think about your favorite artists and what music you love to listen to together. If you are still stuck on what song to select, right below is a list of some popular songs and some hidden gems you could choose.
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POPULAR FIRST DANCE SONGS
“Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis Presley (I also love other covers, such as Haley Reinhart)
“Speechless” by Dan & Shay
“Die A Happy Man” by Thomas Rhett
“Perfect” by Ed Sheeran
“Only Love” by Ben Howard
“All of Me” by John Legend
“Better Together” by Jack Johnson
“Come Away With Me” by Nora Jones
“At Last” by Etta James
“L-O-V-E" by Nat King Cole
“Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran
“If I Ain’t Got You” by Alicia Keys
“Marry Me” by Train
“You Are the Best Thing" by Ray LaMontange
“Everything” by Michael Bublé
HIDDEN GEM FIRST DANCE SONGS
“Love You More” by Alexi Murdoch
“Best Part” by H.E.R.
“I Guess I’m In Love” by Clinton Kane
“I Get To Love You” by Ruelle
“Friday I’m In Love” by Phoebe Bridgers (The Cure Cover)
“Baby I’m Yours” by Arctic Monkeys
“Nothing Can Change This Love” by Sam Cooke
“Summer Lovin’” by The Tuesday Crew
“Lucky” by Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat
“XO” by Beyonce
"You and I" by Michael Bublé
“Latch (Acoustic)” by Sam Smith
“I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles)” by Sleeping at Last
“Nobody But You” by Blake Shelton & Gwen Stefani
“The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra
I hope this blog was helpful, and I wish you the best of luck with all of your song selections for your big day! Need some more help on the musical front? Definitely consult with your wedding coordinator, planner, and especially your DJ or live music vendor for more tips and recommendations.
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